{"id":16322,"date":"2022-03-18T19:24:19","date_gmt":"2022-03-18T19:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/?p=16322"},"modified":"2022-03-18T19:25:15","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T19:25:15","slug":"bucking-tradition-throwing-rice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wedding-traditions\/bucking-tradition-throwing-rice\/","title":{"rendered":"Bucking Tradition: Throwing Rice"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"et_d4_element et_pb_section et_pb_section_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode et_section_regular et_block_section\" >\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_d4_element et_pb_row et_pb_row_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode et_block_row\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_d4_element et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column et_pb_column_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode et-last-child et_block_column\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_text et_pb_text_0  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span class='et-dropcap'>Y<\/span>ou may have attended a wedding where the attendees shower the bride and groom with rice as they leave the ceremony.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This photographic tradition likely began with the Celts, who tossed rice, millet and other grains to appease spirits and ask for blessing and fertility for the couple, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">according to Brides.com<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. However, the tradition crosses multiple cultures. The Ancient Romans used wheat. Italians toss candies or sugared nuts. In Morocco, it's dried dates or figs.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThe rice toss is a symbolic wish to the just-married couple for a life of prosperity and fruitfulness, which to the ancients meant many children,\u201d the Brides.com article says.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The toss usually takes place outdoors as the couple recess from the ceremony or during the grand exit as they leave the reception.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, the rice toss has gotten a bad rap in the last few decades. In 1985, a state legislator in Connecticut introduced a bill to ban rice throwing at weddings, saying it harmed or even killed birds, Brides.com says. While Connecticut Audubon officials refuted the myth, it still exists today and contributed to the decline in rice tossing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you choose to do a rice toss, you should provide guests with individual packets of rice. Many couples appoint someone to hand the packets out as guests arrive at the ceremony. You can also place them on chairs or include them in your programs.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don't want rice but still like the idea of a toss, consider environmentally friendly options such as seeds, dried flowers or herbs. Just make sure these items won't stain if they land on your dress!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other popular options include bubble blowing, biodegradable confetti tossing or bell ringing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Bottom line: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you like the idea of a toss, you can use rice as it does not harm birds. However, you can also get creative with other options!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To learn more about how brides are \u201cbucking tradition,\u201d read our blogs on<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wedding-traditions\/bucking-tradition-receiving-line\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> receiving lines<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wedding-traditions\/bucking-tradition-bridal-party-dance\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bridal party dances<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wedding-traditions\/bucking-tradition-flowers\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">flowers<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wedding-traditions\/bucking-tradition-first-dance\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">first dances<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wedding-traditions\/wedding-traditions-rings\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rings<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wedding-traditions\/bucking-tradition-wedding-cake\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">wedding cakes<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wedding-traditions\/bucking-tradition-bouquet-toss\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the bouquet toss<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wedding-traditions\/bucking-tradition-garter-toss\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the garter toss<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and whether <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/cleveland-wedding-dj\/bucking-tradition-wearing-white\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">white is always right<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You may have attended a wedding where the attendees shower the bride and groom with rice as they leave the ceremony.\u00a0This photographic tradition likely began with the Celts, who tossed&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":16323,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[226],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16322","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-wedding-traditions"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16322"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16322\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16323"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spedj.com\/spe\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}